That is literally 50% of the population of these societies, being oppressed. There are large numbers of people who both now and historically have felt it was morally wrong for women to experience sexual pleasure, even heterosexually. Hell I know families that won't let their children watch nature documentaries for that reason. And that situation was not remotely unusual and still is not unusual in the midwest and much of the rest of the US. Literally just because it had to do with his penis. Heck, it messed my brother up so bad he was afraid to say he was going to the bathroom because we was confused. I literally grew up in a household where they very idea of displaying anything remotely sexual, including and especially heterosexuality, was morally wrong. They believe that fellatio is also completely wrong any time it leads to ejaculation.
The Roman Catholic Church, still a major force in the western world, believes that masturbation is whole sale wrong. Western society has a HUGE problem with sexuality in general. We have a really big problem in western society with people laughing at things precisely because they are sexual.